"My baby won't sleep" is the subject of many of the questions that I get
from parents. I thought it would help to give these parents a glimpse into
the future and see how one "high need" child turned out.
You might like to include my story with your others as some encouragement
for parents with the non-sleeping variety of baby. . .
Our daughter was born nearly 10 weeks premature, which was very early in 1978.
Survival we were told was touch and go. After being through the
intensive care unit, in incubators and the works she was finally 'big'
enough to come home. She was incredibly alert, very interested in her
surroundings - and would hardly sleep at all, and never more than 90 minutes
at a time - a few times a day. A true '24/7' baby. I guess we did most of
the things you recommended more by instinct, and she grew and somehow we
survived. But for 2 years we only had one night's uninterrupted sleep. Yet
this young 'high need' girl was I am now sure simply that way because of her
general alertness, and her tremendous interest in what was going on.
What is she doing now? At 24 she has a degree in bioscience and just
finishing her second degree as a doctor. She is always on the go, very
enthused with life, does scuba diving and most other adrenalin pumping
activities you could name, is a black belt at karate, and has done several
other marshal arts. She loves performing in theatre, usually modern versions
of Shakespeare.
No, we wouldn't have her any other way. We are very proud of all that she is
and all she has done with her life.
So all you parents who have troublesome babies that need lots of attention -
you won't regret a minute of it! One day you'll find out what a tremendous
investment in the future it will be.